We shouldn't worry so much about what we look like. If we have the perfect skin, clothes, hair, are thin enough, fit enough etc. A healthy look and vibe is a good start. Even with age if we do the best we can do for our bodies health and outlook, it's enough. You could have everything you ever wanted on the outside and more, but not radiate a glow of health, happiness or love~and thus it would not matter.
What kind of energy do you carry within you? Do you shy away from talking to people because you feel less than or inadequate? What qualities do you find in others that you feel drawn to and make you want to be around that person? Certainly not the clothes they wear, or their hairstyle, or if they've had plastic surgery. There is an undeniable gift in each of us called our je ne sais quoi. In French this means An intangible quality that makes something distinctive or attractive.
If you met yourself today, what would you like about you, what would be special about just you? We each have a light inside of us. Often we don't let it shine because we think it will not be accepted, well received, liked. The right moths will be drawn to your flame.